You can't heal in the place you get hurt
One of the most difficult experiences in life is that unless you break the cycle
Unless you remove yourself from a situation or environment where you have been hurt
You will most likely continue to be hurt
And turning the page is extremely difficult
Because it implies understanding and accepting that letting go of someone means
That while they may have been a part of your history
They do not have to be a part of your destiny
Murakami once said
Pain is unavoidable, but suffering is optional
And the longer you stay in a situation where you are the one getting hurt
The more difficult it is to heal and the more you suffer